Friday, February 24, 2012

Parshat Terumah


In the second verse of this week’s Parsha it says, “You shall accept gifts for me from every person whose heart so moves him. (Ex. 25:2)” The Hebrew word for gift in this context, and the name of the Parsha, is Terumah.  This word is linguistically similar to the Hebrew word, Romem – to elevate.
The 18th century Hassidic leader, Rabbi Levi Yitzchak of Berditchev, has an interesting lesson about this verse in his torah commentary which connects these two possible interpretations of the word Terumah.  He says that the gift being brought to God is really an elevation of God in our own thoughts and intentions.  When the verse talks about the gift being brought to God by “every person whose heart so moves him,” it is alluding to a person’s thoughts.  The gift to God is really an elevation of God in the person’s own mind, when that person is voluntarily thinking about God and letting God influence their actions.  The thoughts and feelings, which is what God truly desires, is made real when the person actually does an act that was motivated by their thoughts and feelings about God. 
The lesson for us is to remember that is not enough to want to do something nice for another person, or to want to act in a more religious way.  It might be the thought that counts, but the thought isn’t real unless we actually do something with that thought.  

Friday, February 17, 2012

Parshat Mishpatim


There is a story in the Talmud of a perspective convert who goes to the great Rabbi Shammai and says, “teach me all of the torah on one foot (meaning in one moment).”  Immediately, Shammai kicks him out.  So he goes across the street to the other great Rabbi, Hillel, and asks him the same thing.  Hillel agrees, he says, “do unto your fellow as you would have done unto you, the rest is commentary now go and study.”  For the great Torah sage, Hillel, correct behavior is only half of the lesson of Judaism, the other half is that you need to study.
At the end of this week’s parsha there is a very famous and important passage.  It says, that Moses took the book of the covenant and read it out loud to the nation, and the nation responded: “Naaseh ViNishmah” – “all that God has said, we will do and we will listen.”  What an unusual  statement.  Usually, we LISTEN to a proposal, think about it, and then we decide whether or not we will do it. In this week’s parsha, the Jewish people first said they will do, and then only afterwards did they say they will listen.
The midrash explains that this is what made the Jewish people worthy of receiving the torah.  God went to all of the other nations of the world and asked them if they would like the torah.  All the other nations replied, what does the torah contain?  After hearing ideas distasteful to them, they each rejected the divine gift of the torah.  But the Jewish people merited to receive the torah from God because they first said (Naaseh), we will do, and then they said (vinishma) we will listen to what is contained in the Torah.
On the surface this story seems to be compelling us towards blind faith.  That we should blind ourselves to what is contained in the torah and just DO, even if we have no idea what we’re doing!!!  If this were the lesson of the midrash it would only be necessary for the Jews to have responded we will DO (naaseh).  But the real lesson comes from their whole response, we will do AND we will listen (ViNishma).
The addition of vinishma teaches us an important model of religious life.  It is not sufficient to just do religious things, in order to fully receive the torah in the way the Jewish people did after Sinai, we must also listen to what the torah is teaching us.  Listening means that we must learn about the religious acts that we do, not just the details about how to perform mitzvoth, but the reasons why we have each of the mitzvoth.  We must think about how these acts give meaning to our lives.  By taking this lesson of vinishma to heart, ultimately, our religious life will influence our Jewish identity.
This declaration, Naaseh ViNishma, we will do and we will listen is a lesson on how to educate towards religious practice.  The doing needs to come before the learning.  Let’s use art to illustrate this point.  You can describe to someone a beautiful work of art, describe the theory behind the piece, show them the techniques used in creating the artwork, and explain to them how the lighting and color makes it a masterpiece.  But, unless they have seen that work of art for themselves they will not appreciate its beauty.  In contrast, if after having seen a work of art, experienced its beauty first hand, and learnt about the technique and theory which made that work of art a masterpiece, then the appreciation of that work of art will be enhanced far greater than it could have been before.
The same can be said for religious experience.  Studying about religion, while a worthwhile endeavor, might not be a sufficient in itself as a way to enrich one’s personal religious experience.  In order for a religious life to be fully appreciated, it must be experienced.  Once someone has familiarized themselves with the religious experience study will enhance that practice.
This is why we teach children at an early age to do mitzvoth.  Even before they are capable of understanding the meaning of a mitzvah we encourage them to do.  Our hope is that doing the acts will lead them to wonder why they do it, and this inquiry will lead to their own unique personal connection to the mitzvah.
Another aspect of this unusual statement, Naaseh vinishmah, is that it describes how your religious choices can influence your religious perspective.  The things you do or don’t do can directly influence your questions and doubts.  Your overall religious perspective, the questions we ask, the challenges and doubts we struggle with about our religion are often, directly influenced by whether or not we are practicing.  Naaseh Vinishmah is telling us that our learning, our soul searching, our questions, and our doubts should exist, that learning is an integral part of the equation.  The statement says we will do and we will listen.  The torah is directing us to do the learning, search our souls, and have questions.  But the questions which stem from a place of observance are fundamentally different than those from a place of non-observance.
There is a story which is told about a group of young Jews during the Enlightenment.  They are questioning the value of religion, and they feel that religion is a thing of the past which no longer has any relevance.  But in the spirit of intellectual honesty they want to give Judaism one last chance.  So they write down a list of their questions and issues and they decide that one of the young men from the group will go to learn in a yeshiva and try to find out if Judaism can answer their questions.  After some time the group reconvenes, and they ask their friend who had just spent considerable time immersed in Jewish life and Jewish learning if he has found the answers for their questions..
He describes how great his experience has been, how he has learnt so much and that he is so happy, but no word about any “answers.”  So they ask him again, “what about our questions did you find the answers to our questions!?!?”  He responds, “no, but I no longer have those same questions.”  When his religious perspective shifted so did his questions.  The torah wants our questions, but it wants them to be from a place of commitment to a Jewish way of life.  Choosing to commit to a Jewish way of life will shape your perspective differently than questioning from the outside.
The message which comes from the entire statement of Naaseh Vinishma is a vital component of Jewish life.  Action is the body of Jewish life, without action there can be no Jewish experience.  Study needs to go hand in hand with our Jewish experiences, because study is the spirit of Jewish life.

Friday, February 10, 2012

Parshat Yitro


This week’s Parsha contains in it the receiving of the Torah by the Jewish people on Mt. Sinai.  It is one of two times in the Torah that the Ten Commandments are listed.  Today I’d like to focus on the last of the Ten Commandments, “You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female slave, or his ox or his donkey or anything that is your neighbor’s.”
Very simply, this commandment is instructing us not to desire things that don’t belong to us.  This commandment seems to instruct us regarding having a high quality of life as it relates to the statement in  Pirkei Avot (4:1), “Who is rich?  The one who is happy with his or her lot.”  The idea being, that the jealousy which comes from coveting what other people have is a result of not being content with what we have.  When our personal happiness is judged not by what we have alone and our own feelings of contentedness, but on what we have in comparison to others, we will never find true happiness.  There will always be someone with more me, therefore it will be impossible for me to achieve the true satisfaction of a happy life.  Therefore the Torah commands us not to covet the belongings of other people. 
If my focus is on what are the things that I need to make myself happy, then I will be able to set reasonable and meaningful goals for myself, resulting in a true sense of satisfaction and achievement with my accomplishments.    It is difficult in our consumer driven society to see other people’s nice stuff, (be it clothing, gadgets, cars, homes, schools our children attend, etc.) and want these things for ourselves.  It is human nature to desire nice things, so how do we fulfill this commandment?  The Talmud Yerushalmi (Berachot 4:2) describes a blessing that some of our great sages would say at the end of the day which relates to this idea.  The prayer is, “May it be your will (God) that others not be envious of us, and that we be envious of others.  By asking God for help and directing our minds to not want to covet we can train ourselves to want to overcome our jealous feelings.  It is difficult to overcome this strong emotion, but with God’s help and some practice and dedication on our part, we can train ourselves to minimize our jealous feelings.  

Friday, February 3, 2012

Parshat Beshalach


The Parsha opens with the verse, “Now when Pharaoh let the people go, God did not lead them by way of the land of the Philistines, although it was nearer; for God said, ‘The people may have a change of heart when they see war, and return to Egypt.”  What’s interesting to me about this verse is that in Hebrew, the phrase, “although it was nearer,” could also be translated as “because it was nearer.” 
What does this change in translation add?  I believe it highlights a lesson about the importance of learning to cope with adversity.  The verse could now be saying, in my own words, “God did not want to take the people of Israel on the easy path, because if they didn’t learn how to deal with adversity they would not be able to successfully stand up to challenges.”
Religion is not about making life easier by taking away the need to think for ourselves and blindly follow commands.  Religious questions should not be dismissed with simple answers. Instead, we must first recognize the importance of the questions themselves and the struggle implicit in the questions being asked.  When approaching religious life without the depth and complexity that comes from struggle, often, that faith will not be able withstand challenge- it will easily fall apart.   
It is important to learn how to struggle with matters of life and religion so that when our beliefs are challenged, the foundations do not come tumbling down.  Furthermore, a deep personal connection to Judaism blossoms out of struggle and enhances our positive religious experiences.  This type of relationship with our Judaism is necessary to fulfill a phrase from later in the Parsha, “this is my God and I will glorify it.”
The sages used this term about glorifying God as the proof text for a concept of making the mitzvoth beautiful in the way that they are practiced.  A Midrash comments on that verse saying, “through my following of God’s commandments I will cause others to say that there is no God like God.”  It is necessary to have a deep and complex relationship with our religion to acquire such a deep and complex love of Torah and mitzvoth.  And, when a person fulfills God’s commandments from a place of such depth, it impacts not only on the individual himself, but on all those with whom he/she contacts.